When people tell you that they’re rooting for your marriage, what they’re really saying is that they don’t want to have to choose sides and it will be awkward if they try to remain friends with you and he brings around his new woman.
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Basically… I have been in the situation and Geneva eventually sided with the other side.
I think it depends on the person. And if all parties involved have moved on. Sh*t I can be friends with anybody, crack heads, hoes *chuckle*
I think it is the uncertainty … who do you go for when there is a certain kind of balance between the couple? How do I know I should be on your side? Why wouldn’t I agree with the other person?
The only time you can definetly claim that someone is being wishy washy, is if it is a family member. They are supposed to be on YOUR SIDE.
I agree with Aly. It depends on the person. Your real friends are going to root for you and if you appear to want the marriage, they try to be supportive. Your ride or die is your ride or die. Associates and acquaintances, well, some of them will fall off.
The ex-husband and I only truly kept one friend. Technically, he’s my best friend but I let the ex continue to be his friend. It’s hard staying neutral and the worst is when the friends are a couple and one is on one side and the other is on the other. Next thing you know there is strife in your house over some people who don’t even live with you!
Really? Is that really what they mean? If I were to say that I would mean just that. I don’t wish divorce on anyone (been there and done that) so I don’t want anyone to go through it.