This will be a short post.

I have had the same cell phone number for at least 9 years now.  I have a girlfriend who changes her number every time she breaks up with a guy (which is crazy as hell).  Not me.  The same way you could reach Original Diva back in 2000 is the way you can reach her now.

Last night I got a call from an old friend that moved to Texas last year.  We talked for an hour or so and reminisced.  We’ve known each other for 8 years and are truly friends.  It was good to rekindle that relationship.  I’m glad she called.

About a month ago an old high school friend/ex boyfriend called to see how I was enjoying Oregon.  We didn’t talk long because I really didn’t have the desire to speak to him right then.  I think I’ll call and wish him Happy Holidays though.  After all, we were friends for over 10 years.

When I first moved here the man I dated in Memphis called to ask me when he could come visit.  By that time I was committed to what I have with my other half and there’s no need for any other man to come visit me or even have the desire to.  I damn sure don’t have the desire to entertain anyone else other than MY MAN (damn I love that man).  So I simply let him know that I was in a monogamous relationship and he wasn’t welcome in my life anymore.

TODAY……..TODAY (as in less than an hour ago) my phone rang and it was a serious voice from my past.  A pro-bowler that I rarely correspond with anymore.  As a matter of fact, if he knows that I’ve moved then he had to have heard it through the grapevine.  That’s just how long it’s been.

There are times when a memory crosses my mind and I think about people that I’ve lost touch with.  Sometimes I call them and sometimes I don’t.  When I’m on the other end of that situation I often wonder what memory they’ve remembered that made them think of me.

Interesting…