I think one of the eharmony questions is “do you consider yourself romantic?”  I’m not sure.  This particular conversation stems from one that I had with a man yesterday.  I asked him what the most romantic thing he had ever done was and he gave an awesome answer.  I definitely would have appreciated it.  Well he turned around and asked me the same question and I STILL haven’t thought of anything that I’ve done that I would categorize as romantic.  I came up with plenty of things that I qualified as more “nurturing” than romantic and the things that don’t fit into that category still aren’t necessarily romantic.  They are just regular ole stuff.  Cooking his favorite dinner, planning a special date, an impromptu gift, that all fits in the regular stuff bag to me.

Here’s the twist.  I can of plenty of things that men have done for me that I considered as romantic.  Seems that being romantic is more applicable for men than women. Hmmmmm. more…