Yesterday my best friend made a comment about someone still being in love with an ex.  She clarified by reminding me of the fact that I always try to remember the good things about my exes instead of just the reason we broke up.  So it’s possible for you to always love the good things about that person.  Then she wished that she could Frankenstein herself a boyfriend….using a characteristic or trait from several different people to create one really great guy.  Interesting.  Well yesterday my telephone rang and if I could take one thing from the person on the other line it would be the voice.  It is an awesome voice….but then again voices can be truly attractive in general.  I guess that’s an admission on my part.  I find the right voice attractive in a man.  I had to think back for a minute and make sure that I didn’t just become attracted to the voice after I became attracted to the man.  But if you can think of an ex whose voice alone didn’t do it for you then that’s not the case and I can definitely think of some plain voices.  Don’t get me wrong.  There is nothing wrong with a plain voice.  It’s the person that matters.  But there is something about answering a phone and hearing a voice smoother than melted dark chocolate on the other end saying “hey baby.”  That’s good stuff right there.
 
Along these same lines, I was chatting with another girlfriend last night and the subject was people being attracted to more than one person at the same time.  She may have had a point.  It makes good sense that if you are attracted to certain qualities and traits in a person and you know 2 or 3 people with those traits that you could possibly be attracted to all of them even though you’re in a relationship with one.  I’m talking serious characteristics here…..not just the voice. LOL  Perhaps a great sense of humor, drive, ambition, respect, etc…. This has happened to me before and it actually led to a problem. I was very attracted to a friend who is a great guy that has all the stuff on the list…..but I was dating someone. In the end it hurt the friendship because it was hard to be “one of the guys” while he dated other women.
 
I guess that I wrote all of this because I wanted to hear from other people.  Have you ever been attracted to more than one person at the same time? (Intelligent answers only please.)