I know someone who is lonely. They feel as though they are alone but they’re not. They’re not because I’m here. I might not be right there connected to their hip but I’m still here….available, praying, loving, believing. But they feel as though they are alone. The truth of the matter is that they chose the loneliness they are feeling. They elected to be in that situation with those circumstances. They have the exact life they want.
When The Wedding Date premiered in 2005 a lot of women objected to the above quote from Debra Messing’s stepfather to her but as you keep living you begin to see the reality of that statement. Your love life is a result of the decisions you make. If you didn’t want what you had you’d make different decisions.
So when you’re lonely you can change that be not pushing people away and allowing them to love you.
A lot of the people I know through blogging have been doing so for 10+ years. I looked at one yesterday and it made me think of the word EVOLUTION. You would hope that in 10 years we’ve all evolved in some manner. Do you think about your own evolution? Do you look at the you that you used to be and compare to the you that you are today? Do you see change?
It gave me pause to think…and reflect. I looked back at the oldest post I could find. The date says April 2006 but that was the month I transferred to my own domain so all of my old posts have that date. I found this one and it makes me wonder what I was going through when I wrote it. I don’t even remember the situation or circumstance but what I find amazing is that I’m positive whatever it was I thought it was the end of the world. And here I am at least 7 years later and I don’t even remember it.
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